Introduction
As we begin our Call & Response series, we start with wonder. Something happens when we realize we are known—truly known—before we even have to explain ourselves. Psalm 139 draws us into that moment. It reminds us that our lives are not anonymous, nor are they forgotten. We come from love, we live within reach of the Divine, and every breath is known before we’re even aware of it. Wonder lives in the awareness that we are never alone in the universe—and never overlooked.
Illustration Video
Note: This video includes mild strong language and emotionally intense themes. Viewer discretion is advised. The full video is approximately 10 minutes, so viewers may wish to pause for group discussion or to focus on selected scenes.
Why This Video?
This story mirrors the emotional and spiritual center of Psalm 139. Beth spends much of her life feeling alone and overlooked, unaware that someone was quietly paying attention. Mr. Shaibel didn’t force his presence or seek credit. He simply saw her, supported her, and stayed connected in ways she never imagined. When Beth discovers what he had saved and followed, the moment becomes a turning point. Being known can change how we see ourselves and how we see the world.
Video Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you most in the relationship between Beth and Mr. Shaibel?
- Why do you think Beth was so affected when she saw the wall of clippings?
- Have you ever discovered that someone was paying attention to your life more than you realized? What did that mean to you?
- What makes it difficult to believe we are known and cared for in this kind of way?
- In what ways is being known a comfort? In what ways can it feel vulnerable?
- When have you felt seen or understood by someone else—even if they never said it directly?
- How might this story shape the way you understand God’s presence in your life?
- How does it feel to imagine that God knows you this personally and completely?
Psalm 139:1-6, 13-18 (NRSVue)
1O Lord, you have searched me and known me.
2You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
you discern my thoughts from far away.
3You search out my path and my lying down
and are acquainted with all my ways.
4Even before a word is on my tongue,
O Lord, you know it completely.
5You hem me in, behind and before,
and lay your hand upon me.
6Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
it is so high that I cannot attain it.13For it was you who formed my inward parts;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
that I know very well.
15My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
16Your eyes beheld my unformed substance.
In your book were written
all the days that were formed for me,
when none of them as yet existed.
17How weighty to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18I try to count them—they are more than the sand;
I come to the end—I am still with you.
Scripture Study Questions
- Which lines of the psalm stood out to you most? Did anything feel familiar, surprising, or new?
- How does the psalmist describe what it feels like to be fully known by God?
- When have you experienced the joy—or the discomfort—of being known deeply by someone?
- Do you think being known by God brings comfort, accountability, or both? Why?
- What kind of environment helps you feel safe enough to be open and honest—with God, with others, or even with yourself?
Additional (Optional) Questions
- What does Psalm 139 say about how well God knows us?
- When you read the psalm, what verbs (action words) catch your attention?
- What do you think it means when the psalmist says that God “searches” us?
- How does this passage suggest God treats us, knowing both the good and the hard parts of who we are?
- How can we echo the attributes of God in our world?
- Who knows you the best right now?
- Whom do you know the best right now?
- How do you treat the people you know the best? Is that different from how you treat strangers or acquaintances? Why?
Weekly Action
Set aside ten quiet minutes this week to quietly sit with God. No agenda, no requests. Simply let your prayer be presence. If it helps, read Psalm 139 slowly and imagine God saying it directly to you. Afterward, consider sharing with a trusted friend, family member, or spiritual partner what it felt like to be known in that moment. What was comforting? What was challenging? What did you notice?
Prayer
Loving God, You know us completely. You know our thoughts, our fears, our hopes, and even the things we try to hide. And still, you call us beloved. Help us to rest in your knowing, to stop hiding, and to find courage to be more fully ourselves… with you, with one another, and within our own hearts. Amen.
Disclosure: This Sermon Note was created by LJUMC staff with resources from Discipleship Ministries of The United Methodist Church and with the support of AI tools.